Need to get sorted? Where do you start?

So you feel that the “stuff” in your home is out of control but don’t know where to start?

Before you do anything, get in the right mindset:

  • Realise you are not alone – these days most of us have lots of stuff – so be kind to yourself
  • Then, IMAGINE HOW YOU WANT YOUR HOME TO LOOK
  • Assess realistically whether your home can ever look how you imagine if you keep everything you have
  • So how much will you need to let go to achieve this?
  • When you get off track or demotivated, go back to the “visual” you have of how you want your home to look

Maybe you have now realised that some stuff is going to have to go

Great, you can now start taking action

Often it can be best to start with the easiest or a small area in your home – maybe the linen cupboard, wardrobe, kitchen cupboards or “landing strip” (my “landing strip” is just inside my front door – the entry hall table where I unload everything when I get home – my keys, sunglasses, mail, etc).

Once one area is sorted, it’s great encouragement to move on to the next.

decluttering-melbourneSort into –

  • Keep, Donate or Toss
  • Have a box for items that are to go to other rooms
  • You may want to include a “sell” pile, but think clearly about whether you want to put the time & effort into selling?

If it’s your linen or kitchen cupboards in need of a good sort, review what you have –

  • Do you need so much?
  • Do you have so many glasses in your kitchen cupboards that you can’t find matching sets?
  • Are there towels/sheets/glasses that you never use and are just taking up valuable space?
  • Do you need so many blankets – could you donate a couple?
  • How many sheets do you actually need?
  • If you’ve had it in your cupboard for years and never used it, let it go – it’s taking up valuable space!
  • Be tough, sort and put aside what you haven’t used in ages – then either donate or toss it

Still having trouble getting started?  Why not try pretending it’s not your home?  Pretend you are helping a friend & encourage them to do it, cheer yourself on …

Understand the time cost and space cost of keeping items – often we just assess the purchase cost of an item, not the ongoing cost of retaining it

 

Happy sorting

(Taken from: Mary, the allsorter)

Downsizing your Possessions

Chances are that at some time in your life you will be faced with a downsizing move.  It can be an emotional and overwhelming time, particularly for anyone who is moving to aged care or retirement or has a loved one considering the move. 

Many people put it off because they can’t deal with what is in their home – years of possessions, treasures and memories. 

Although lots of possessions means lots of decisions, for most of us we only have two main choices –

  • Deciding what to take
  • Deciding what to do with what is left behind

Where to start?

  1. Keep it simple? Indecision can lead to inaction and avoidance when dealing with a home full of possessions.  Keep on track with a Keep It Simple Statement (KISS) that summarises your objectives and motivations for the move.
  2. Identify what you are taking? Knowing the exact space available and rooms in your new home will help you to make the best decisions – measure, know what fits, draw up a plan, define the function for each space and allocate furniture accordingly. Define your “must have” items and treasures.  Don’t get bogged down with holding on to stuff from previous life phases – e.g. only take clothes that fit, are comfortable and you love to wear. Create keepsakes or memory books.  Photographs can be a challenge for many – this is a great task for family to help with.
  3. What to do with what is left?  Give to family/friends, sell what you can, embrace giving to charity and then toss what remains.  Action and farewell items you are letting go of as soon as possible – acknowledge that they have served you well but can now be passed on.
  4. Still can’t let stuff go? You may need to explore your relationship to your stuff? Are you putting yourself first?  It is easy to put a monetary value on possessions but harder to value your time, space and health?   Have you fallen into the trap of being caretaker for other people’s stuff?
  5. Emotional challenges? If you have the luxury, take time to farewell items from important stages in your life and enjoy the memories. If you have inherited treasures that you have put off dealing with, then you need a big reality check – aren’t treasures supposed to bring us joy?  Leaving items in boxes for years is not treating a loved one’s belongings with grace and respect.  Now is the time to sort it all and chose the 5 Treasures from your loved one that bring you joy.
  6. Physical constraints? Assess what you can physically manage.  You may need to work in short time periods – it can be tougher to make decisions when we are tired.
  7. Helping a loved one? Understand the importance of taking time to farewell life stages. Remember this is their journey not yours.  Be non-judgmental, patient, make allowances, take it slowly and work at their pace.  Are they still capable of making decisions?  Are there other factors involved – bereavement, mental health disorders (hoarding, anxiety), depression or dementia?  Value family relationships and assess whether you can support them at this challenging time.  If needed, consider whether you need independent assistance.
  8. Get help! If you can’t handle it all, don’t be afraid to ask for help from family or friends, or call in a professional.   We all organize differently and some find it easier than others.

 

(Taken from: Mary J Harnan BBus, Owner – founder – allsorter – 3A organiser)

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vinegar

45 Uses for Vinegar

1. Freshen up the fridge. Clean the shelves and walls with a solution of half water and half vinegar.

2. Brighten coffee cups and teacups. Gently scrub stains with equal parts vinegar and salt (or baking soda).

3. Eliminate odors. Swab plastic containers with a cloth dampened with vinegar.

4. Kill bathroom germs. Spray full-strength vinegar around the sink and tub. Wipe clean with a damp cloth.

5. Save a garment. To remove light scorch marks on fabrics, rub gently with vinegar. Wipe with a clean cloth. This technique also works on antiperspirant stains.

6. Tidy up a toilet. Pour a cup or more of diluted white distilled vinegar into the bowl. Let sit several hours or overnight. Scrub well with a toilet brush and flush.

7. Lose the carpet stain. Make a paste of 2 tablespoons white distilled vinegar and ¼ cup salt or baking soda. Rub into the stain and let dry. Vacuum the residue the next day. (Always test an out-of-sight part of the carpet first.)

8. Renew paint brushes. To remove old paint, place brushes in a pot with vinegar. Soak for an hour, then turn on the stove and bring the vinegar to a simmer. Drain and rinse clean.

9. Wipe off a dirty faucet. To get rid of lime buildup, make a paste of 1 teaspoon vinegar and 2 tablespoons salt. Apply to sink fixtures and rub with a cloth.

10. Stop static cling. Add ½ cup of white distilled vinegar to your wash cycle. The acid reduces static and keeps dryer lint from sticking to your clothes.

11. Make old socks look new. Get the stains out of old socks and sweaty gym clothes by soaking them in a vinegar solution. Add 1 cup of white distilled vinegar to a large pot of water, bring to a boil and drop in the stained clothes. Let them soak overnight, and in the morning stained clothes are fresh and bright.

12. Restore handbags and shoes. Wipe white distilled vinegar on scuffed leather bags and shoes. It will restore their shine and help hide the marks.

13. Banish weeds. Pour white distilled vinegar on the weeds growing in the cracks of your walkway and driveway. Saturate the plant so the vinegar reaches the roots.

14. Liven droopy flowers. Don’t throw out cut flowers once they start to wilt. Instead, add two tablespoons of white vinegar and one teaspoon of sugar to a quart of water. Pour the solution into your vase, and the flowers will perk up.

15. Put an end to itching. Dab a cotton ball soaked in white vinegar on mosquito bites and insect stings. It will stop them from itching and help disinfect the area so they heal faster.

16. Whiten your teeth. Brush your teeth once a week with white distilled vinegar. Dip your toothbrush into the vinegar and brush thoroughly. It will help prevent bad breath, too.

17. Make nail polish last longer. Before you apply your favorite polish, wipe your nails with a cotton ball soaked in white distilled vinegar. The clean surface will help your manicure last.

18. Keep car windows frost-free. Prevent windows from frosting over in a storm by coating them with a solution of three parts white distilled vinegar to one part water. The acidity hinders ice, so you won’t have to wake up early to scrape off your car.

19. Let your dog shine. Spray your dog with one cup white distilled vinegar mixed with one quart water. The solution is a cheap alternative to expensive pet-care products, plus the vinegar will help repel pests like fleas and ticks.

20. Battle litter-box odor. Cat litter can leave behind an unwelcome smell. Eliminate it by pouring a half-inch of white distilled vinegar into the empty litter box. Let stand for 20 minutes, then rinse with cold water.

21. Kill bacteria in meat. Marinating in vinegar knocks out bacteria and tenderizes the meat. Create a marinade by adding ¼ cup balsamic vinegar for every 2 pounds of meat to your own blend of herbs and spices. Let the meat sit anywhere from 20 minutes to 24 hours, depending on how strong you want the flavor, then cook it in the morning without rinsing.

22. Prevent cracked eggs. Prevent eggs from cracking as they hard-boil by adding two tablespoons of white vinegar to the water. The eggs will stay intact, and the shells will peel off more easily when you’re ready to eat them.

23. Steam away a microwave mess. Fill a small bowl with equal parts hot water and vinegar, and place it in the microwave on high for 5 minutes. As the steam fills the microwave, it loosens the mess, making clean up a breeze.

24. Repair DVDs. If you have a worn DVD that skips or freezes, wipe it down with white distilled vinegar applied to a soft cloth. Make sure the DVD is completely dry before reinserting it into the player.

25. Get those last drops. If you can’t get that final bit of mayonnaise or salad dressing out of the jar, dribble in a few drops of vinegar. Put the cap on tightly and shake. The remaining condiments will slide out.

26. Rinse fruits and vegetables. Add 2 tablespoons white distilled vinegar to one pint water. Use the mixture to wash fresh fruits and vegetables, then rinse thoroughly. The solution kills more pesticide residue than does pure water.

27. Brighter Easter eggs. Before your kids dye Easter eggs, mix 1 teaspoon of vinegar with ½ cup of hot water, then add food coloring. The vinegar keeps the dye bright and prevents the color from streaking.

28. Loosen a rusted screw. Pour vinegar onto the screw, and it will easily unstick.

29. Remove gum. To remove gum from fabric or hair, heat a small bowl of vinegar in the microwave. Pour the warm vinegar over the gum, saturating the area. The gum will dissolve.

30. Keep cheese from molding. Wrap cheese in a vinegar-soaked cloth, then place in an airtight container and refrigerate.

31. Renew a loofah. Soak your loofah in equal parts vinegar and water for 24 hours to dissolve soap residue, then rinse in cold water.

32. Remove wax. If you get melted candle wax on your wood furniture or floors, gently wipe it away with a cloth soaked in a solution of equal parts white vinegar and water.

33. Take a relaxing bath. Add ½ cup of vinegar to warm bath water for a cheap spa session at home. The vinegar removes dead skin, leaving you feeling soft and smooth.

34. Brighten your hair. Remove hair product buildup by rinsing a tablespoon of vinegar through your hair once a month.

35. Freshen fabrics. Fill a spray bottle with white vinegar and spritz your home to neutralize odors in fabrics, carpets, shoes or any sprayable surface.

36. Erase crayon. If your kids get crayon marks on the walls or floor, dip a toothbrush in white vinegar and gently scrub. The vinegar breaks down the wax, making for an inexpensive, nontoxic way to clean up after children.

37. Sticky stickers. Don’t scratch at the residue left by stickers or price tags. Instead, apply vinegar to the gunk, let it sit for a few minutes, then wipe the glue away.

38. Clean the dishwasher and coffee pot. Reduce soap buildup and food residue by pouring a cup of vinegar into your empty dishwasher or coffee pot once a month and letting it run a full cycle.

39. Sanitize pet accidents. You can remove the stain―and smell―of your pet’s accident by mixing ¼ cup vinegar with a quart of water and blotting the mixture onto the mess with a washcloth. Continue dabbing until the spot is gone.

40. Prep for summer grilling. To remove charcoal buildup from your grill, spray white distilled vinegar on balled up aluminum foil and scrub the grate thoroughly.

41. Restore showerhead pressure. If your showerhead gets clogged with mineral deposits, soak it for 15 minutes in a mixture of ½ cup vinegar and 1 quart water.

42. Clean your scissors. When your scissor blades get sticky, wipe them down with a cloth dipped in full-strength white vinegar. Unlike soap and water, vinegar won’t ruin the blades or rust the metal.

43. Unclog drains. For a natural, nontoxic way to clean clogged pipes, pour one cup of baking soda, followed by one cup of white vinegar, down the drain. Let the products bubble and foam, then flush the pipes with a pot of boiling water.

44. Eliminate dandruff. If your scalp is feeling dry or flaky, vinegar can be a simple at-home remedy. Once a week, pour one cup of apple cider vinegar over your scalp, and let it sit for 15 minutes. Rinse thoroughly with cool water.

45. Soften your feet. Summer sandals leaving you with cracked heals and calluses? Soak your feet for 20 minutes a day in one part vinegar to two parts warm water. The vinegar removes dead skin, leaving your feet soft and smooth.